The Daughter Deficit

Published: August 19, 2009

In the late 1970s, a Ph.D. student named Monica Das Gupta was conducting anthropological fieldwork in Haryana, a state in the north of India. She observed something striking about families there: parents had a fervent preference for male offspring. Women who had given birth to only daughters were desperate for sons and would keep having children until they had one or two. Midwives were even paid less when a girl was born. “It’s something you notice coming from outside,” says Das Gupta, who today studies population and public health in the World Bank’s development research group. “It just leaps out at you.”

What Das Gupta discovered is that wealthier and more educated women face this same imperative to have boys as uneducated poor women — but they have smaller families, thus increasing the felt urgency of each birth. In a family that expects to have seven children, the birth of a girl is a disappointment; in a family that anticipates only two or three children, it is a tragedy.

The lesson here is subtle but critical: Development brings about immense and valuable cultural change — much of it swiftly — but it doesn’t necessarily change all aspects of a culture at the same rate. (India and China have myriad laws outlawing discrimination against girls that are widely ignored. And how to explain the persistence of missing girls among Asian immigrants in America?) In the short and medium terms, the resulting clashes between modern capabilities and old prejudices can make some aspects of life worse before they make them better.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/23/magazine/23FOB-idealab-t.html?pagewanted=1&_r=2&emc=eta1

Please help Damini's dream come true

(On the right is Damini, on the left is her mother.)






Damini's mother and sisters all make costume jewelry and do sewing work but Damini has dreams of being a science teacher.

Her family does not have enough money to help her so we are relying on you to help her dreams of a better future come true.

If it is within your power, please make a contribution to the US$256 (Rs11,500) needed for her to attend university for the first year. Gaining entrance to Bachelor of Science course is not a small achievement and, if she gets a little assistance to get her started, Damini has a bright future ahead.

Women and girls aren’t the problem; they’re the solution.

IN THE 19TH CENTURY, the paramount moral challenge was slavery. In the 20th century, it was totalitarianism. In this century, it is the brutality inflicted on so many women and girls around the globe: sex trafficking, acid attacks, bride burnings and mass rape.

Yet if the injustices that women in poor countries suffer are of paramount importance, in an economic and geopolitical sense the opportunity they represent is even greater. “Women hold up half the sky,” in the words of a Chinese saying, yet that’s mostly an aspiration: in a large slice of the world, girls are uneducated and women marginalized, and it’s not an accident that those same countries are disproportionately mired in poverty and riven by fundamentalism and chaos. There’s a growing recognition among everyone from the World Bank to the U.S. military’s Joint Chiefs of Staff to aid organizations like CARE that focusing on women and girls is the most effective way to fight global poverty and extremism. That’s why foreign aid is increasingly directed to women. The world is awakening to a powerful truth: Women and girls aren’t the problem; they’re the solution.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/23/magazine/23Women-t.html?_r=3&pagewanted=1

Help Roshan, baby son of a Widow

This is Gomvati and her son Roshan in Vatsalya hospital, Mathura. Gomvati was first featured on this blog on 30th September 2008, just after her husband died.
Since then, blog supporters have helped Gomvati to feed and clothe her children, to pay the rent and get treatment for her tuberculosis (T.B).
Both children have been admitted into Sandipani Muni school to ensure that they wont end up illiterate and desperate like their mother.
Unfortunately, Roshan, Gomvati's 1.5 year old son recently caught maleria and had to stay in hospital for a week. Since Gomvati's children have been admitted in Sandipani Muni school, Gomvati has also started coming to the school to learn embroidery.
Gomvati is getting a small training wage and we hope that she will soon be able to fully support herself and her children through her embroidary work; but for now we need your help to pay for Roshan's medical treatment.
Rs9600 (US$215) is needed for his hospital admission and medicines. Please contact Rupa@fflvrindavan.org if you can help.